Monday, January 21, 2013
Dennis J. Reidy (1945-2013)
Monday, December 17, 2012
Quiet Heroes
This is a copy of an email I sent to everyone who works in our District today:
DUSD Administrators, Teachers, and Staff,
I just wanted to share a few thoughts with you today as we come back after the horrible events that happened in Connecticut on Friday and all of the news coverage over the weekend. Every shooting that we have had in this country has been a tragedy. However, what happened on Friday is nothing that can even be processed. Losing 20 six and seven years olds is beyond belief. It seems that this has touched the core of everything that is right and wrong in our society today.
I don't believe that we will ever be able to fully understand or know why Friday's massacre happened. There will be all kinds of theories and all kind of reasons that politicians and the media will suggest caused this horrific event to happen.
I would like to share with you something that I feel strongly about and maybe one thing good can come out of this horrible day. Public education has been neglected and put down by politicians and the media for quite sometime. We have had to listen to people saying our schools are failing, teachers need to work harder, we have too many administrators, etc. But I believe public education is the backbone of our society and has made this country what it is today. Anyone here can get an education at any time, at any age. This weekend, we heard about the heroic actions of many of the educators. Some of them lost their lives trying to protect their children. This did not surprise me at all. I have been in education for many years and I don't know of an educator who wouldn't have done exactly the same thing faced with these circumstances!
As you work with the children in your schools today, please know that you are truly heroes in our society! You come to school every day, walk into your classrooms or offices, and give our children the best that you can. You do this under difficult circumstances, without adequate funding, and low salaries. Public education must take every child who comes to us. We can't be selective.
We hear how first responders are heroes and they are. However, teachers and educators are the quiet heroes! The DUSD administrators, teachers and support staff do an incredible job every day and I am proud to be a part of such a wonderful group of people!!!
You are all HEROES!!
Sheila
Thursday, September 13, 2012
The Gift of Life and The Gift Friendship
Last January, my friends were planning a trip down here and it was cancelled just before they were to come. I didn't think much about it, but then I started to get worried. I was up in the spring and I could see that she wasn't doing as well as she had before. I was worried about her, but she was always positive. I saw her again in late April and I knew then that things weren't going well. That is when I found out that Jill was going to need another transplant. Although she had taken care of herself so well, transplants only last a certain number of years and Jill had made it 15 years. The scary part for Jill is that she was having to do dialysis during this period of time.
In the middle of all of this, Jill took the time to send a birthday card to my Aunt Teresa on her 90th birthday, which was July 30. For her to think of Teresa's birthday when she was dealing with her health issue speaks volumes as to who Jill is as a person!
One of my all time favorite books is The Prophet by Kahil Gibran. I love quotes and found one from him that I think is very fitting for this post. "In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things, the heart finds its morning and is refreshed." My heart has been refreshed once again because of these wonderful friends.
Monday, September 3, 2012
What I Did on Summer Vacation.............
This summer I took vacation days to plan for and have the family reunion and celebration for Teresa's 90th birthday. I took about two weeks in July. I have found that the only way to truly get a vacation in my job is to leave town and get out of cell phone range!!! Of the days that I took off in July, I went into the office at least two times each of the days except for the last day. The last day of my vacation was also the last day of our reunion. So I spent the day cleaning up and putting things away.
As we were looking at the window, one of the people there to help noticed that the pole holding the back porch up had been clawed by a bear!! Since the fire last summer, bears have been coming down further than in the past. I have never seen one at the cabin and the only time I remember hearing about one was when Teresa saw a bear several years ago.
Then on Friday I took a vacation day to go back up to the cabin so that the outhouse could be cleaned out. We have had the cabin since 1960 and I believe the outhouse has only been cleaned out twice. I remember many years ago our Uncle Johnny cleaned it out with a shovel. I remember that very well because I spent the day climbing up a mountain so I wouldn't have to "deal" with this particular job!
When I got up to the cabin, I had to wait for about 45 minutes for the guys to arrive. My poor puggies were not happy with this huge and very loud truck on our property. Notice what a brave pug Diego is..............
They put 300 gallons of water down the hole and then used some kind of tool to break things up. I certainly don't wish to go into detail on this blog... They got as much as they could but there are so many tree roots that have gotten into the hole that they weren't able to get everything. As the guy told me, the outhouse is a "smorgasbord" of nutrients for all of the trees--never thought of it that way.
By the time I got back into cell phone range, I had a text from Kerri saying she was sick and they wouldn't be able to make it down for the long weekend. Needless to say, I was disappointed as we were going to celebrate Cameron's 14th birthday. When I talked to her, she sounded awful.
Since I had already purchased everything for the weekend and was really looking to get away from my cell phone, etc., I decided to go up anyway. I had also invited one of our administrators and his family for Sunday. So the pugs and I packed up and headed backup for the third time this week. Fortunately it is only about an hour away.
Although it was a bit warm during the middle of the day, it was still beautiful. There isn't much water in the creek which is very unusual for this time of year. There has been a lot of rain, but obviously not in the right places to cause the creek to flow. The desert between Douglas and Portal is absolutely gorgeous--so green.
It was a peaceful, restful weekend. Didn't see any bears or burglars!! Listened to music, read two books, enjoyed my friends yesterday and totally relaxed.
I love the cabin and the area around it. It is so peaceful and so beautiful!! It is so great to be only an hour away!!
Sunday, August 26, 2012
Validation
As he started preparing, an elderly (and very distinguished) gentleman came forth and went up to the altar to assist. This wonderful man is almost 90 years old and suffers from the early stages of Alzheimers. He is always at 5:00 o'clock mass and is often one of the Eucharistic Ministers. It is always touching for me to see him participate, despite the fact that he has oxygen with him and has a bit of trouble getting around. I have known him all of my life. Our families' friendship goes way back and I went all through school with his children.
However, what happened last night was amazing! I am sure at one point in his life he had been an altar boy. He helped Father with the water and the wine and all of the preparation. He then went down to where the altar server sits and knelt down right on the carpet (and I can tell you I wouldn't be able to do this.) He then became the bell ringer during the consecration. After that, he went about his way and did his Eucharistic Minister duties. Just watching this tonight was so powerful. I have given him a ride home a couple of times after church. My admiration for him is immense!! I believe there was a message in what I saw tonight!
Friday I had to go to Tucson for a meeting. I got back just in time to change and go to the first DHS football game of the season. I left the game about half time as I was tired and when I got home, there was a message on the answering machine. It was from the wife of the gentleman that I wrote about. They had been gone all summer to stay with one of their daughters. First she wished Teresa a late happy birthday and told her she wished she could have been here for her birthday celebration. She then started to thank me for writing about her husband on the computer. As she was talking, she started to get choked up and couldn't continue talking. I could hear her quietly crying and trying to continue talking. She was able to say how much she appreciated the beautiful words that I had written about him, but it was very hard to understand her through her tears. This evening, I called her and talked to her. She was so appreciative and so supportive. She told me she was glad I am here and will call if they ever need anything.
Needless to say, this message meant so much to me. And it came at a time where I was considering not allowing just anyone to have access to my blog. I had made the decision earlier this week that I would not allow a bully to keep me from writing my blog and keeping it so that it is accessible for anyone. I truly believe that this was a sign and was not just a coincidence.
For the past two years that I have been in Douglas, a few things have happened that have truly helped me in making some of the very tough decisions that I have had to make in my job down here. They were unexpected and I believe that maybe my mom is up there helping me out just a little bit!!! And I think that is what happened on Friday night...........
My job in Douglas is not done. I have had so many positive comments made to me over the last several weeks from so many different people. Although I came down to Douglas primarily to be with Teresa, I believe that there might be a few more reasons. Although this sign was about my writing, I actually believe it was far more than just about my blog. I absolutely believe it was much more than that!!
Abraham Lincoln said, "I do the very best I know how, the very best I can, and I mean to keep on doing so until the end."
I have three more years and I can guarantee that I will CONTINUE to do my very best until my time is finished here!
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Sentimental Journey
I have dedicated my career to try to do the best I can always for children and the adults who work with them. It has been discouraging to have to encounter a few negative people who are always trying to find fault with everything that is done. So this visit was so important to me. It it all about the children and we can never lose sight of that.



