Friday, October 8, 2010

October Memories

Wednesday (October 6) was the eighth anniversary of my mom's death. Today (October 8) would have been her 93rd birthday. It doesn't seem possible that is has been eight years.

Being in Douglas brings back so many memories of her. So many people tell me how much they liked her or tell me a story about her. Even after eight years, she has not been forgotten by so many people here in Douglas.

I know that she would be very pleased that I am here with Teresa. I think that is the only thing that is missing for me is to have her know about this move. I really do believe that she does know and that she had a hand in bringing me down here!!

Last school year, I remember having a conversation with a sixth grade boy who had just lost his mom. I remember telling her that it didn't matter how old you are, losing your mom always hurts.

Every year we have had a tradition of going out to dinner somewhere around this time and telling stories about her. "Those we love are never really gone, as long as their stories are told." I will be in Gilbert this weekend and I hope that we can all go out to dinner and continue this tradition. It is important to me for many reasons--one being that I want Cameron to have these memories of her.

She was a wonderful lady with a great sense of humor and a belief in giving back to the community she lived in. I learned a lot from her and even now, I think I am still learning. Not a day goes by that I don't think about her and miss her and feel fortunate to have had such a great woman as a mom and a role model.

Happy 93rd, Mom!!!

4 remarks:

NP said...

Beautiful tribute Sheila. I agree that your mom knows you are with Aunt Teresa and that she probably had her hand in that plan.
Love & hugs,

Anonymous said...

Not only was she a great Mom to you, she was a great Aunt to all of us. Loved her spunk!


Dottie said...

She was a beautiful, generous, giving person, Sheila! She made everyone feel so welcome! Hmmm . . . the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree!!!!!!!!!
Lots of love,

Anonymous said...

Can see your mom's face as if it were yesterday, Sheila. What a remarkable woman she was and what comfort she brought to all of us. She must be so proud of what you are doing right now with your life and being in Douglas with Aunt Teresa and continuing the legacy. Life must go on, but the memories make us strong!
Sandra and Tom