Saturday, February 19, 2022

One Third Plus One Day Completed!

 I MADE IT THROUGH THE WHOLE WEEK GETTING THIS "C" RADIATED OUT OF ME!  Each day I was nervous.  A few posts ago, I wrote that I thought I had the preparation all figured out and no more worries!  Was I ever wrong about that!  However, I am doing everything the doctor tells me to do and a few things that Judy is helping me with so all week was fairly good.  

As of yesterday, I fully completed 10 treatments with 17 to go.  When I met with the doctor on Wednesday, he felt things were going really well, but that he wanted to take it week to week because I could need a rest break somewhere during this time.  I told him I wanted to get it done but I will also do whatever he says.

We also had a talk about how difficult social isolation has been for me.  He encouraged me to get out more.  So Thursday Dave and I went to the casino for a bit and then went to dinner (late Valentine's Day) at Longhorn Steakhouse.  Dave had a filet and I got his lobster tail and ordered an extra baked potato.  I like Longhorn as their food is good and all servers wear masks. Plus I have to be careful what I eat right now.  It was just nice to get out for a bit.  I had hoped we could do something this weekend, but weekends really are a time for rest--I guess to prepare for the next week.

However as I said, this is all worth it and although I am tired, I don't feel badly and I am still very positive.  I am anxious to get out and start doing a few more things.

TO BE CONTINUED.............!

Saturday, February 12, 2022

The Reason I Continue to Do What I Do!

On this Lincoln's Birthday, I found this article and wanted to share it.  This is the reason I continue to do what I do and serve on the school board during these trying times.  I had the most wonderful role model in my mom, Margaret Shannon.   This article is from the Douglas newspaper.

Sunday, June 23, 1996
By Jame F Crane
A Life of Accomplishment
Margaret Shannon after retirement:
She is so small that is is easy to overlook her in a crowd. But start listing Margaret Shannon's accomplishments and her contributions to her native Douglas, and her stature exceeds that of most citizens.
Among other things, Margaret Shannon
*Was the first female department head at Phelps Dodge, heading up the company's Hardware Jobbing Division prior to her retirement in 1982
*Represented Ward 5 on the City Council for 12 years.
*Chaired the city's Finance Committee for 12 years.
*Spent seven years on the board of St. Vincent de Paul
*Is the president-elect of the Cochise County Fair Association, of which she has been a member for 10 years.
The early years
The fifth of seven children, Margaret Scott Shannon was in the first first-grade class at Loretto Academy in 1924.
"Oh, I enjoyed it." she said. "And I got a good education there."
Her father, a railroad conductor known for his prodigious memory, was ready to take his family to Texas so his children could attend a Catholic School. "But then Loretto opened" she said. "It was a very, very good school. There were music and plays and debates. And students got all of the classroom attention that they needed."
"They were double classes, too." she said, with two grades put together in one classroom. While it sounds odd today, having third and fourth graders in the same room allowed a student to more readily find his or her own level.
And education didn't stop at Loretto's door. Her dad made the children memorize a poem to recite each Friday. "And all of the states and their capitols." Shannon said. "We had to learn those, too. He was a strong believer in memorizing.
After graduating from Loretto, she attended Gregg's Business College. When the young Margaret walked out of that institution, she was able to walk into a job as a clerk at the Arizona Tax Commission.
However, she soon moved on to a better job as a case worker at the Industrial Commission. "It was like the workman's compensation of today," she said. "We had to deal with the claims of injured workers."
The Phelps Dodge Years
In 1950, Shannon returned to Douglas and went to work for Phelps Dodge as an invoice clerk. "Phelps Dodge was a fine employer." she said. "They were very good to me." Apparently she was very good for Phelps Dodge, as well, because from invoice clerk she rose to head the Hardware Jobbing Division at the big warehouse down on 9th Street, the first female head in the Phelps Dodge operations.
In addition to being responsible for keeping on hand everything everything Phelps Dodge needed for its Arizona operations, she also had to keep the hardware goods local contractors needed, because the jobbing division was a wholesale outlet.
"By hardware, I mean ten inch pipes, steel I beams, H beams, roofing paper and things like that," she said.
To give you an idea of the size of the "hardware" she's talking about, that dinky on display in the lot on 11th Street came out of that warehouse. "That railroad engine was used to move the steel beams in the warehouse." she said.
Did her male cohorts give her a hard time? "No." she said. "Never. The men were just wonderful. I had no problems with them at all."
After working for Phelps Dodge for a total of 35 years, Shannon retired in 1982. She had worked in the Phelps Dodge mercantile during high school, time that counted toward her seniority.
"And then I woke up one morning and discovered that the city had moved me into Ward 5 from Ward 6." she said. And that made me mad," she said. I had lived in Ward 6 all of my life." She didn't like being redistricted out of a life-long affiliation.
"So I went down and took out a petition," she said. And she ran for City Council. And she not only won, "But I won big, too," she said.
That spur of the moment decision to get involved led to 12 years on the Douglas City Council.
"On any issue of importance, I always surveyed the ward." she said. Sometimes she would call as many as 200 of her constituents in order to get a sense of how they felt about an issue.
"I always voted what the ward wanted," she said.
"I think that is always fair."
What was her most important important accomplishment while on the council? "We kept the city in the black through the real rough times."
Shannon is quick to praise both former mayor Elizabeth Ames and what she called the "bright people at City Hall."
"We have some excellent department heads," she said.
The former mayor, the city council, and the people of City Hall, working together, helped lay the groundwork for some of the good things that are happening in Douglas today, she said, like the opening of the Unique Molded Products plant.
"The city worked hard to get it," she said. "Industrial development is important. Unemployment is a big problem."
And what of the future? For the city where she was born and raised, where she has spent most of her life, and where she helped guide for 12 years, she is optimistic.
"There's a big market for tourism,' she said. "I'd like to see a one-night-in Mexico-one-night in Douglas kind of package put together. What an experience for tourists that would be!"
And she sees Douglas as being right now "in a position to move. It's a great town, and undiscovered town."
Personally her plans are to continue on the board of St. Vincent de Paul and to continue to support St. Luke's Church. She has just taken over as president of the County Fair Association, and she plays bridge twice a week.
"But I really don't feel all that busy." she said.
 
TO BE CONTINUED....................! 

 

Friday, February 11, 2022

Social Media During This Journey

I have avoided putting anything on Facebook during this journey for a variety of reasons.  I have only shared anything with the wonderful group of people I belong to on Rita's Virtual Diner.   None of them live in Arizona and they have all been supportive.

I have loved Facebook for the connections and being able to reconnect with friends and former classmates.  Unfortunately, in today's politicized environment, a lot of people have no qualms about saying anything that they want no matter what kind of hurt it could bring.   

And that is why I am blogging this.  Anyone can get to my blog, but it isn't out there everywhere.  Plus writing is helpful to me.

Judy's birthday is Jan. 31 and she asked if she could post something.   She doesn't have the "following" I do.  Hers is mostly just good friends.  I was fine with her posting something and in her typical way, what she wrote was amazing.   I was totally fine with it and all the people who responded were so supportive and kind. 

For some reason, I didn't put it on my blog.  It touched my heart and I want to have it available for anytime I want to read it or if anyone else wants to read it.  

Here is what she posted:

Dear Family and Friends,
Monday is my birthday and all I want this year is prayers and support for my sister, Sheila. Sheila was diagnosed with Stage 3 cancer a few months ago. She and her doctors remain positive about her recovery. She continues to serve on the school board of the Gilbert Scool District with love and courage. However, her chemo and radiation treatments have brought many challenges that she faces with the same determination to make things better, as she has always done in her life. Please surround her with your love and support…

 I love this and thank her for it.
 
TO BE CONTINUED...............! 

 

Thursday, February 10, 2022

Four Down--Twenty Three to Go!

Today was the first day that I drove myself to radiation..   After the doctor's appointment yesterday, I am finally so relieved that all my preparation is going to work  and I won't have to worry about that anymore.  I really do feel good. I get a bit overtired if I push it, but driving to this appointment is really not a problem.  Dave is more than willing to drive me and I had to convince him that I could do it myself.   I promised him that if I felt the least bit tired or shaky, I wouldn't even attempt it.  I do know my limitations and I am not going to take any chances.  It is about a 20 minute drive, a 20 minute treatment and then drive home.   There isn't much traffic at the time I go so it was easy.

The hardest part for me was that I have to get up at 7:00 (not in my retirement goals) and start drinking water in order to fill the bladder.  It takes between 60 and 90 minutes for that to happen.  Believe me, it isn't on my list of things to continue when this is over.  I can honestly say that it truly does take this amount of time with water.   I was going to ask the doctor if I could drink Coors Light instead because I have never had one when I didn't have to go the bathroom immediately.   I was fairly sure he would say NO, so decided to skip that question--maybe next Wednesday when we meet again!

I took a shower, put on my  BIG GIRL DEPENDS (just in case the water decided it didn't need that much time), got dressed and headed to the doctor's office.  There were no problems whatsoever and the radiation went fine.

I will have to make up for the two that didn't work last week, but that is just a blip in the overall scheme of things that I can handle.  I am just so relieved that we  were able to get everything worked out yesterday.   I am supposed to keep my stress level to a minimum as much as I can (which is harder than one would think), but this definitely has been a plus not to worry about.

Got home all in one piece and was able to do a few things around the house before the fatigue set in.   So right now I am resting.   My dear friend, Jill, is coming over early this afternoon and we hope to go out for a bit to someplace close that has an outdoor patio.  For me, the social isolation has been the most difficult part to handle.  So I am definitely resting for my time with Jill as we always have fun and she has been such a good friend and such a support to me during these past months.

So THANKFUL THURSDAY for me!

TO BE CONTINUED........................!

Wednesday, February 9, 2022

Wonderful Wednesday News

The last week has been frustrating with starting radiation and having some issues that can't be discussed on social media (at least I am not willing to discuss them).   Last Friday, they stopped the radiation about three minutes into it because I had some internal issues that I had to take care of. Needless to say, I was upset and disappointed.  The doctor called me Friday as soon as I got home and told me what to do for the weekend to prepare for Monday.  It was not a fun weekend as I was very worried even though he told me not to worry and we would get it worked out.  So this past weekend was not one of my best.   Worry is not a good thing when undergoing cancer treatment--nor anything else.

I did everything the doctor said to do over the weekend.  My appointment is at 9:10 every morning so I am getting up and drinking water at 7:00.   Believe me, drinking several glasses of water that early in the morning isn't my idea the way to start out the day.  However whatever it takes I will do.

Monday morning I was so nervous when they started the treatment, but everything went smoothly.  Same thing for both Tuesday and today---I did everything right.  

Wednesday is my "doctor" day and they let Dave come in with me.  We first went over all of the issues regarding the radiation and worked on a continued plan which will be much easier for me to maintain.  I am behind two treatments, but they will be made up later.  I need a total of 27 and I have had three successfully so need 24 more.  Before my appointment, the thought of 24 more almost did me in.   He said I may need a break sometime during the treatment but we would decide that as we go along.  After the 27 treatments, I will get a week's rest and then two brachytherapy sessions in one week and another the following week.   Will get a bit of a rest and then finish the last three chemo sessions.  I must say that chemo for me is a piece of cake compared to radiation.  Never knew that.

Then we went over the results of the PET Scan which he had called me about to tell me it came out very positive.  AND IT WAS EXTREMELY POSITIVE.  I love both my doctors, but this doctor is no nonsense and he couldn't have been more positive about how things are going and feels that I have an excellent prognosis.  

After I got home, I was planning on going to lunch at my dear friend, Bonnie's house.  I drove over to Mary's house and met Judy and Dotty and we all drove together to Bonnie's.    What a wonderful time we had.  We all taught together at Patterson many years.   We laughed and reminisced and had a wonderful time.   It was "food for my soul" as I haven't gotten out much.

WHAT A WONDERFUL WEDNESDAY!!!


TO BE CONTINUED...............!

 

Tuesday, February 1, 2022

Good News in the Year of the Tiger!

 


Just after eight o'clock this morning, I received a call from Dr. Chowdery, my radiation oncologist.  He just wanted to let me know  the results of the PET scan from last Friday.  He told me that everything was clear and looked very good.  He also said that he knew I was worried and wanted me to know about the results to ease my tension.  I hung up and cried--not just for the good news, but for the kindness of this doctor who is very busy and wanted to alleviate my stress.

When I had the scan in December, there was something in a lower lung lobe and something in two areas in my spine.  The radiologist who read that scan, stated that he felt that one was a "bone island?" and the other just possibly a small infection.  However, because of the cancer, he recommended that another scan done (which was the PET Scan) to rule any issues out.  Dr. Chowdery agreed with him.  He also felt that there were no problems, but it was best to make sure.

Needless to say, this was such a relief in so many ways.  I didn't say much to anyone, but I was worried.  I had a lot of questions for the doctor, but I didn't want to take up his time because I knew he just made the call to alleviate my  worries.

Today is the beginning of the Chinese New Year.  I normally don't pay much attention to it, but saw several posts on Facebook about it being the "Year of the Tiger."  For me, that is an excellent omen.   My 21 years as principal of  the Gilbert Elementary TIGERS were the 21 best years of my career (I loved everywhere I was, but Gilbert El was special).  So I am positive that this "Year of the Tiger" is going to bring me health and be an incredible year for me!


 

TO BE CONTINUED................!